Ask Yourself the right Question!

If you don’t ask yourself the right questions then how can you consciously get the answer? Many of us are asking questions but the questions are not leading us to where we need to go. Sometimes we ask a good question but not at the right time or in the right order. Let me explain what I mean.

Imagine you are a business woman who is considered to be successful in many peoples eyes, yet you are feeling unfulfilled. You feel as if you are living someone else’s life. When you started on your career path you knew you were multi-talented and you wanted to be successful. However, you didn’t ask yourself the right question, so every so often, like a weed the results of the unanswered question show up in your life over and over again– in different areas of your life. You jump from job to job, never quite climbing as far as you desire. Or maybe you are a woman who is in a relationship that is unhealthy, yet you continue to be in this relationship.

Both women probably both failed to ask the important question. “What don’t I want?” This question helps you to bring your fears to the surface.  We often acknowledge where we want to go. We create goals and discuss them, but we don’t often talk about what we don’t want. Our fears are always lurking behind the scene, or below the surface. If we don’t acknowledge our fears, then they will continue to show up in our lives, in different ways. You have to give your fears to God. Tell Him about them. Then trust Him to guide you through it. Our fears will anchor us to where they showed up. Many remain stuck there for years and years.

You don’t have to stay stuck. Sit down and ask yourself the right questions. Pray and ask for guidance. Be open and honest with yourself. Don’t blame and don’t make excuses. Get quiet and listen for the answers to your questions. Pay attention to people and things around you to listen for your answer. Listen for that still small voice.

Be open to receive and act on what you here. If you have to let go of a mindset, then let go. If you need to embrace something new, then embrace it. Be willing to receive the answer and then act on the answer.

As a life coach, I find join in supporting others to find the right questions, then answer your questions so you can move forward in your life.

Don’t delay anymore. Get support from your friends or a life coach to answer those questions and get unstuck.